Maybe I’m a bit late to contribute as I’ve only just joined. But, I have often wondered about the veracity of having women’s only groups. I don’t care if men have them, they can do what they want. But do women need them? Do women want them? Clearly they want them becase there are so many around with many many members. But I haven’t come across a women’s group that disallows men. Most women’s groups that I know of - and I’m talking business groups - welcome men.

As the Editor of a businesswomen’s section of a business magazine, I interview hundreds of women annually and I receive invitations to a plethora of women’s functions. 99% of the business women I interview are very happy to work, mix, network and engage with men. And every women’s group with whom I have come in to contact welcomes men. Not just as a visitor but also as a member.

Maybe I just meet very confident women because I don’t meet women who remain intimidated by men. I do meet a few men intimidated by women. The feminist pendulum had to swing far and wide to gain attention for the women’s movement. But I’m an equalatist - and most people I meet are gender blind. They will do good business with reliable people who have credible products and services. In a networking environment they can choose who they talk to. In a meeting environment they can join in - because if a woman won’t speak up in front of a man then chances are she may also be reticent in front of a woman.

Stand for something or you’ll fall for anything.

One day I will attend a workshop

I truly believe that starting your own business and becoming self sufficient financially is one of the greatest gifts that you can give yourself. If you are just starting out, i suggest finding a couple of local womens business networking groups that you can visit and meet up with some like minded women.

Good luck with your new venture, and feel free to post your comment liberally, we’d love to hear your thoughs.

Donna